The AskMen Guide to Bedroom Terminology (And How to Use It Properly)

Considering how a lot most individuals care about intercourse (and, as an illustration, how none of us would exist with out it), it’s not stunning that we’ve constructed elaborate, typically even poetic, vocabularies to explain all of the issues we see, do and really feel between the sheets — and en path to getting there.

But with all of the slang intercourse phrases floating round there (and there are at all times new ones being created) it may be laborious to maintain monitor of what all of them imply.

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Someone might say, “I thought he was a twink, but apparently my gaydar is way off, because then he started talking about how bad he wanted to creampie me after he saw my camel toe, and how much a pawg he thought I was, and to be honest he kind of had daddy energy, so we ended up having a quickie. I couldn’t stop queefing, though!” and it might imply completely nothing to 1 individual and be crystal-clear to the following.

But with all of the slang intercourse phrases floating round there (and there are at all times new ones being created) it may be laborious to maintain monitor of what all of them imply. So right here’s a helpful information of 69 intercourse phrases you won’t know — together with what they imply, the place they arrive from, and methods to use them in dialog. (Which conversations you determine to make use of them in is as much as you.)


Sex / Move

Pronunciation: SIX-tee NINE

A sixty-nine is a intercourse place that includes two folks performing oral intercourse on one another concurrently by mendacity abdomen to abdomen in reverse instructions. Can be completed with each individuals mendacity sideways, with one individual on their again and one other on high, or with one individual standing and the opposite individual the other way up. 69 can also be thought of to be one of many “cool” numbers, together with 420 (hashish) and 666 (the satan).

Etymology: The numbers 6 and 9 appear like two folks going through one another whereas mendacity in several instructions — identical to two people who find themselves 69ing. 

“Oh man, I just discovered 69ing and I absolutely love it!” 


aka “eating ass,” “rimming,” “tossing salad,” “a rimjob”

Sex / Move

Pronunciation: AY-ni-LING-us

Anilingus is the anal model of cunnilingus — which means oral intercourse carried out on the human anus. Meaning butt-licking, basically. Not everybody’s cup of tea, however it’s undoubtedly gained reputation in recent times. Like the genitals, the perineum (rim of the anus) has plenty of nerve endings, and if it’s been cleaned, licking it gained’t be harmful to the giver. 

Etymology: Anilingus comes from “anus” and “cunnilingus,” which comes from Latin — “cunnus,” which means “vulva,” and “lingere,” which means “to lick.” So anilingus means “to lick an anus,” mainly. 

“I can’t believe I’m saying this, but Scott and I have been really getting into anilingus lately. He gives a seriously great rimjob!” 


aka “A2M”, “ATM”

Porn / Move

Pronunciation: ASS to MOW-th

Likely popularized by porn, ass to mouth is a intercourse transfer the place a man goes from penetrating an anus on to receiving oral intercourse, with out cleansing his penis off in between. While this may be handy within the warmth of the second, due to the potential presence of dangerous fecal micro organism deep inside within the anus, it might be very unhealthy. 

Etymology: Just a easy description of what the penis does — going from being inside somebody’s ass to inside somebody’s mouth. 

“Would you ever go A2M?” “Ass to mouth? Hell no!”


Sex / Move

Pronunciation: BAIR-back

Slang time period that’s well-liked within the homosexual group for penetrative anal intercourse completed and not using a condom. 

Etymology: A time period stolen from horse-riding — in the event you rode a horse and not using a saddle, you have been driving on its naked again. In this case, the comparability suggests a condom is sort of a saddle — maybe safer to experience with, but in addition maybe much less thrilling to make use of. 

“It regarded like we have been going to hook up, however then he mentioned he solely did bareback and that wasn’t cool with me.”


Kink / Term

Pronunciation: BEE-dee-ESS-emm

BDSM is a type of catch-all time period for intercourse that’s generally described as tough, intense or kinky, usually (however not at all times) involving leather-based and whips or different technique of bondage and punishment, numerous varieties of position play, and several types of sensation play equivalent to sexual biting, choking, scratching, electrifying, slapping and spanking, and many others. While it was once thought of considerably stunning, it’s change into increasingly more frequent and mainstream in current many years, partially as a result of success of the BDSM-focused “50 Shades of Grey” ebook and film collection. 

Etymology: Short for bondage (tying somebody up), domination (being in management) and submission (letting another person have management), sadism (having fun with inflicting ache) and masochism (having fun with experiencing ache).

“Darren and I have been really getting into BDSM lately there’s a local kink community that has pretty regular meet-ups and they are awesome.”


Queer / Persona

Pronunciation: BAIR

A time period within the homosexual group for a giant, chunky, bushy homosexual man. Much sought-after. Bears are sometimes thought of “daddies,” additionally. 

Etymology: Likely a reference to the truth that a wild grownup bear is a really massive, robust and furry creature. 

“I was super into him, but he said I wasn’t hairy enough. I guess he was only looking for bears.”


Queer / Persona

Pronunciation: BEERD

Slang time period for a lady who dates, marries or is “linked” with a homosexual man with a view to make him look like he’s in a heterosexual relationship. Often used relating to Hollywood {couples}, since traditionally there’s been strain for profitable male actors to ‘stay in the closet’ with a view to preserve their reputation with feminine followers. 

Etymology: Likely a reference to the truth that macho, manly males stereotypically develop thick beards — whereas homosexual males are sometimes thought of extra effeminate and thus might not be perceived as more likely to develop a lot facial hair. 

“I can’t believe they’re getting married! I was so sure that he was gay and she was just his beard.”


Sex / Term

Pronunciation: BEEST with TOO BACKS

Slang time period for intercourse or the act of lovemaking. Not notably frequent within the twenty first century. 

Etymology: A reference to the truth that, when going through one another, two folks having penetrative intercourse are joined on the crotch, like a single animal with a front-facing again and a back-facing again.

“Ugh, I’m so embarrassed. Last night my roommate walked in on me and Lana making the beast with two backs… if you know what I mean.”


aka “involuntary testicular vasocongestion”

Sex / Term

Pronunciation: BLOO bawls

Slang time period for the ache males typically expertise from prolonged sexual arousal with out completion. Getting blue balls is primarily a problem for youthful folks, equivalent to teenage virgins participating in lengthy bouts of dry-humping however by no means continuing to completion. 

Etymology: Too a lot oxygenated blood in your penis can truly make your scrotum look distinctly darker, giving it a purplish look — however “purple balls” doesn’t actually have the identical ring to it.

“We spent like 45 minutes dry humping but then she had to leave to catch her flight. Worst case of blue balls ever, man.”


Porn / Genre

Pronunciation: boo-COCK-kay

Porn style of Japanese origin the place somebody (usually a lady) is roofed in semen by a gaggle of male individuals ejaculating on her, usually in a round formation. Can even be completed in an all-woman iteration that includes feminine ejaculation. 

Etymology: Bukkake is the Japanese phrase for the “act of splashing” — on this case, splashing semen on somebody’s face. 

“I’ve been watching so much bukkake porn that now when I see a cinnamon roll, I feel like it’s sexual.”


Sex / Term

Pronunciation: KAH-mell TOE

Descriptive time period for when a lady’s pants are very tight or experience up in order that her pubic mound is visibly outlined between her thighs. 

Etymology: So named for its obvious similarity to a camel’s toe. 

“Her pants were so tight last night… Total camel toe situation.”


Porn / Genre

Pronunciation: see-EFF-enn-EMM

A style of porn that options some clothed individuals moderately than everybody being absolutely bare. Often, the folks carrying garments make enjoyable of or dominate the submissive bare individual.

Etymology: CFNM is brief for “clothed female, naked male.” 

“Lately I’ve been really getting into CFNM porn. I don’t know why exactly but it really does it for me.”


Sex / Term

Pronunciation: CHODE

Slang time period for a penis that’s wider than it’s lengthy when erect. Also, all-purpose insult, usually used in opposition to a person. 

Etymology: Sadly, the origin for the phrase “chode” seems to be unknown. 

“I was super excited for her to go down on me, but when she pulled down my pants, she said, ‘I can’t suck on this, this is a chode.’”


Kink / Move

Pronunciation: KOK and BOL tor-CHUR

Something you’ll be able to ask a dominatrix to carry out on you, if somebody hurting you by way of torturing your genitals sounds arousing. (Typically meaning you’re a submissive.)

Etymology: It’s only a description of the act — torturing somebody’s penis and testicles. 

“I’m such a sub… just heard there’s something you can pay a Dominatrix to do to you called ‘cock and ball torture’ and it’s so hot I can’t think about anything else at the moment.”


aka “prick tease,” “tease”

Sex / Persona

Pronunciation: KOK tees

Someone (usually a lady) who leads folks (usually males) on sexually with out having any curiosity in truly consummating. A cock tease might go away you with literal or metaphorical blue balls. 

Etymology: The verb “tease” can imply just a few various things — on this case, there’s a way of the combination of playfulness and cruelty within the thought of tempting somebody however not delivering. 

“My friend called his date a total cock tease when she said she didn’t like to sleep with guys on the first date, so she laughed at him and walked out.”


Sex / Persona

Pronunciation: KOK-blok

An individual (or, much less usually, situation) who acts in such a method as to forestall two folks from hooking up or in any other case getting an opportunity to be alone collectively. Functions as a noun and likewise as a verb. 

Etymology: Likely popularized as a result of rhyming sound, however it’s an individual who actually blocks you from utilizing your penis in a sexual sense, so “cockblock” is smart. 

“I was so sure that we were going to hook up, but their roommate kept on dragging us into conversations about politics and stuff. What a cockblock.”


Sex / Persona

Pronunciation: KOO-gar

An older lady (usually in her late 30s to 50s) who particularly seeks out male sexual companions considerably youthful than herself, both for informal intercourse or for romantic relationships. Some cougars are MILFs, however not all MILFs are cougars. 

Etymology: Dates again to a minimum of 1999 — older girls who go after youthful guys are conceived as predatory animals, like a cougar looking down smaller prey. 

“I love going to wine bars now… They’re always full of hot older women. Total cougartown.”


Porn / Move

Pronunciation: KREEM-pye

A creampie is a porn time period for a intercourse act that completed with a person ejaculating into a lady’s vagina, usually involving a shot exhibiting the semen dripping out afterwards. Can even be used as a verb, denoting the identical act. 

Etymology: Like the intercourse act, actual cream pies are primarily white-coloured and probably messy.

“I asked Cheryl if she would let me finish inside her, and she said if I wanted to creampie her, I would have to pay for her IUD.”


aka cuck, cucking

Kink / Persona

Pronunciation: KUK-old

Term for a person who’s cheated on by his spouse, usually by larger/stronger males often called “bulls,” usually whereas he watches, usually whereas he masturbates, usually whereas he’s verbally or bodily abused by his spouse/the opposite man or males. Also a time period for the porn style that includes such acts. In some instances, cuckolding has a definite racial connotation — effete or weak white males watching whereas robust, highly effective black males dominate their wives sexually. 

Etymology: The time period “cuckolding” comes from the phrase “cuckoo,” since, for the cuckoo fowl species, the feminine usually entertains a number of male sexual companions. 

“I feel weird admitting it, but yes, the thought of my wife cucking me really turns me on.”


Porn / Move

Pronunciation: KUM-shot

Porn time period for the second when a person ejaculates on digital camera.

Etymology: What you see on display in porn (and in movie and TV typically) is named a shot — so a cumshot is a shot of the second when a person cums. 

“I was watching porn last night and my wi-fi cut out just before the cumshot. Total anti-climax… Literally.”


aka “zaddy,” “daddy Dom”

Kink / Persona

Pronunciation: DAH-dee

Term for an attractive man with stereotypically father-like/masculine qualities — usually older, bodily robust, and financially well-off. While the identify suggests incestuous want, that’s not at all times the case — daddies are a lot in demand each for homosexual males and for girls and infrequently it’s a comparatively surface-level description. However, in some instances, there’s a want for a kinkier, incest-themed roleplay model, like DDLG, or “daddy dom/little girl,” which is a Dom/sub class of BDSM the place a usually older man and youthful lady will interact in intercourse acts and sexualized play than incorporate parts of a father/daughter relationship. 

Etymology: Daddies are males who remind us of male patriarchs — older, stronger, extra financially effectively off, like a father compared to their kids. 

“We were hooking up, and she said to me, ‘Ooh, spank me, daddy.’ I wasn’t sure whether to be weirded out or turned on. Maybe a little bit of both.”

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Sex / Move

Pronunciation: DAY-zee CHAIN

A intercourse time period for a gaggle of three or extra folks every performing intercourse acts on the following individual. Similar to a 69 in that you simply’re each giving and receiving on the similar time, however on this case with a bigger variety of folks — and probably the folks on the ends are solely participating in one of many two actions. 

Etymology: This intercourse act is type of like a series, and daisies are flowers which are ofter linked collectively by their stems to type a series or circle. 

“So I had a foursome last night.” “Wow! What was it like?” “Well, we sort of formed a daisy chain rather than everyone trying to fit into the same thing or splitting off into pairs. It was super hot.”


Sex / Move

Pronunciation: deep-THROH-ting

A type of fellatio the place the individual performing oral intercourse makes an attempt to take their associate’s penis as deeply into their mouth as potential, to the purpose the place it strikes down their throat. 

Etymology: Popularized by the 1972 porn movie “Deep Throat,” which featured a lady who acquired sexual pleasure from having deep oral penetration. 

“I love it when the person blowing me can really deep-throat me, but my girlfriend’s gag reflex is so intense I’m not sure she’ll ever be able to.”


Sex / Term

Pronunciation: DEN-tell DAM

A type of safety to forestall contraction of STIs from cunnilingus — usually a skinny sheet of latex, type of like a condom for a lady’s vulva. Compared to condoms, dental dams aren’t practically as well-liked, nonetheless. 

Etymology: Dental dams have been initially utilized in dentistry to cowl a affected person’s face and surrounding enamel whereas a dentist labored on a selected part of their mouth. 

“He told me he would only go down on me if we used a dental dam, and I told him I appreciated his commitment to safer sex, but no thank you.”


Sex / Term

Pronunciation: DER-tee SAN-chez

The identify for an accumulation of fecal residue on an individual’s higher lip which may happen when performing ass-to-mouth intercourse. In a vein with different iconically named slang phrases like “Hot Karl” (any intercourse act the place one participant’s feces will get on the opposite’s physique), “Rusty Trombone,” (giving an individual a rimjob and a handjob concurrently), “Donkey Punch” (punching a lady behind her head whereas having anal intercourse), and “Blumpkin” (receiving a blowjob on a rest room whereas defecating), it’s one thing that appears to exist extra for teenage boys to joke about than as an an precise intercourse act or time period. 

Etymology: Since fecal residue on one’s higher lip would possibly resemble a mustache, and stereotypically, Hispanic males usually have mustaches, and Sanchez is a Hispanic final identify, “Dirty Sanchez” type of is smart. 

“He told me he wouldn’t eat my ass out because he was afraid of having a Dirty Sanchez… After that, I had a hard time taking him seriously.”


Kink / Genre

Pronunciation: DAW-ging

Public intercourse, usually in conditions that particularly invite the participation of strangers. 

Etymology: Believed to be a British intercourse slang time period. Originally from males who watched {couples} having public intercourse — ‘dogging’ them within the sense of being watchful or following them, as a canine would possibly. 

“It turns out we both love dogging… We’ll drive out to a nice little spot and meet up with some people from online and just go at it. It’s incredibly hot.”


aka “domme”, “pro domme”

Kink / Persona

Pronunciation: DOH-mih-NAY-trix

A dominatrix is a intercourse employee — who usually works out of a location referred to as a “dungeon” shared with different dominatrixes — specializing in sexual kinks and BDSM. Typically, dommes don’t interact in full penetrative intercourse with purchasers, moderately they’ll dominate paying submissive purchasers in numerous methods — soiled discuss and role-playing, spanking and numerous types of sensation play, cock and ball torture, and many others. 

Etymology: Dominatrix is the feminine type of “dominator” in Latin. 

“I met someone at a bar recently who was just, like, the sexiest person ever. She was flirting with me real hard and hitting all my dirty-talk buttons. Turns out she’s an actual professional dominatrix. I can’t tell if I want her to be my girlfriend or if I want to hire her.”


Queer / Persona

Pronunciation: DOPP-ell-BANG-er

Gay slang for a sexual associate who seems to be identical to you — like you may be a pair of twins. 

Etymology: Derived from the German phrase doppelgänger, actually a “double-goer,” or your precise double. 

“Oh my God, did you see Dylan and his new boyfriend? Real doppelbanger situation.”


Sex / Persona

Pronunciation: DEE-tee-eff

DTF is an adjective indicating that an individual is broadly prepared to interact in intercourse acts, or probably prepared to take action with a selected individual. 

Etymology: DTF is just brief for “down to f*ck” — “down” right here which means “willing” and “ready.”

“We Tinder matched at 11:15 and she had invited me over for drinks before midnight. That’s why I knew she was absolutely DTF.”

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Queer / Persona

Pronunciation: DOWN-loh

Adjective and noun denoting somebody who’s homosexual however within the closet and perceived as straight, or somebody who secretly engages in gay exercise whereas sustaining a heterosexual look. 

Etymology: Of African-American origin, probably from the late ‘90s or early 2000s. The implication is that a man who’s on the down-low is hiding his true sexuality ‘below’ a public facade of heterosexuality. 

“Do you think Grant is really straight? I heard he was on the down-low…” 


Kink / Move

Pronunciation: eh-RAW-tick as-FIX-ee-AY-shun

Practice of participating in strangulation throughout intercourse to intensify pleasure, as decreased oxygen circulation can result in a “rush”-like sensation. Can be achieved by a associate choking you or alone whereas masturbating (“autoerotic asphyxiation”). Can be fairly harmful and result in mind damage and even demise if carried out improperly. 

Etymology: Asphyxiation comes from the Greek phrase “asphuxa” which means “without pulse,” however in English means dropping the flexibility to breathe. 

“I can’t tell if I love it when he chokes me because I like feeling him in control, or I’m into erotic asphyxiation, or both. But damn, yes, choking makes me wet as hell.”


Sex / Move

Pronunciation: FAYCE-sid-ing

Facesitting is an oral intercourse place the place one participant lies down, and the opposite positions their genitals on their face to obtain oral pleasure. Easier if the sitter has a clitoris, however nonetheless potential if the sitter has a penis.

Etymology: Literally, sitting on somebody’s face — or a minimum of squatting proper over it. 

“I came like, five minutes in. But I knew she was into facesitting, so she climbed up to my mouth, and I licked her clit until she came, too.”


Porn / Move

Pronunciation: FAY-shell

Porn time period for a person ejaculating on his associate’s face. Typically happens on the very finish of a scene or film — during which case it will depend as each a cash shot and a cumshot. 

Etymology: Probably a winking reference to the noun “facial” which means, “a beauty treatment for the face,” usually within the type of a cream of some kind that girls would rub into their faces, circa early Twentieth century America. 

“I can’t believe this, but my hook up last night was actually into the idea of me facialing her. I guess we both got what we wanted.”

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Sex / Move

Pronunciation: FELL-ching

Slang time period for sucking semen out of an anus after an anal intercourse ejaculation. 

Etymology: The time period goes a minimum of way back to the ‘70s, but it’s not clear what the origin of the phrase is, precisely. 

“I thought I was the kinky one, but then after he came, he pulled out and sucked his load out of my asshole.” “Oh my God, he felched you?”


Porn / Persona

Pronunciation: FLUFF-err

Term for an worker on a porn movie shoot whose job is to maintain the male star’s penis erect between takes. 

Etymology: Appears to this point again to the Seventies or ‘80s, when digital camera know-how on the time meant extra time between takes, and thus required actors to be erect for longer stretches of time. 

“My buddy told me he got a job working in porn, and I said, “With your tiny dick? No way. They must have hired you as a fluffer.’” 


aka frottage

Kink / Move

Pronunciation: FRAWT

Frot is a time period for a intercourse act that point out rubbing in opposition to an individual or object moderately than participating in any type of penetration. Often signifies rubbing your self in opposition to one other individual in a public place, which is a intercourse crime. Less felony is “dry humping,” when two folks rub in opposition to one another consensually with their garments nonetheless on — a standard staple of teenage relationships. 

Etymology: Frot derives from the French verb for rubbing (“frotter”).

“Dan and I have been really getting into frot lately. It’s just so… raw and passionate feeling him pressed up against me like that.”


aka “futa”

Porn / Genre

Pronunciation: FOO-tuh-NAH-ree

Futanari is a kind of porn (usually animated or utilizing 3D animation) that includes girls with massive — usually impossibly massive — penises. Sometimes their sexual companions are fellow futanari, typically different lovely girls with out penises. 

Etymology: Futanari is the Japanese phrase for hermaphrodite, a scientific time period for an individual (or animal) with each female and male genitalia. 

“Have you ever heard of futanari? Yeah… It’s wild, but futa porn is such a turn-on for me.”


Kink / Move

Pronunciation: GANG-bang

A gangbang is group intercourse the place three or extra males interact in intercourse acts with a single individual, usually with a minimum of two — if not all of them — penetrating the recipient on the similar time. In some instances, a gang bang might be carried out by dozens of individuals. 

Etymology: As with “cockblock,” “gangbang” may need been popularized merely as a result of rhyme, and never resulting from any precise gang-related connotations — merely that lots of people are having intercourse with, or “banging” one individual. 

“Last night Sheri and I did a Yes/No/Maybe list together to figure out what sex stuff we were both into, and guess what? It turns out we both find the idea of a gangbang super hot. So now I need to find a few other guys who want to join us…”


Queer / Term

Pronunciation: GAY-dar

The potential to inform whether or not somebody is homosexual (or lesbian, or in any other case queer) or not, primarily based on stereotypical understandings of homosexual habits. Because homosexual folks usually need to or choose to cover their sexuality, determining whether or not somebody is homosexual will be tough, main fellow queer folks (or just curious straight folks) to attempt to discern whether or not somebody’s homosexual primarily based on how they discuss, how they carry themselves bodily, what their pursuits are, and so forth. 

Etymology: Portmanteau of the phrases “gay” and “radar.”

“So then he started asking me which of the two turtlenecks I liked better, the teal or the quartz, and my gadar started pinging like crazy.”

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Sex / Term

Pronunciation: gurl-FREND ex-PEE-ree-ence

Service provided by high-end escorts and intercourse employees the place purchasers pay for the expertise of an entire relationship, not simply intercourse acts — issues like saying “I love you,” spending high quality time collectively, happening dates, and many others. Much costlier than merely paying somebody to have intercourse with you. The time period was popularized by a film (and later, TV present) of the identical identify. 

Etymology: You’re actually getting the expertise of getting a girlfriend — however paying for it. 

“I’m so jealous of guys who have the money to pay for the full girlfriend experience. I wish I could afford that from the girl I’ve been seeing. The sex is great but I just want a bit more from her, you know?”


Sex / Term

Pronunciation: GLOH-ree HOLE

A gap reduce in a wall, usually in a rest room or toilet stall, the place a person can insert his penis and have intercourse acts carried out on it anonymously by the individual on the opposite facet. Also used as an adjective to explain the porn style the place this occurs. 

Etymology: The time period had been in use in different senses for the reason that early nineteenth century, however gained a sexual connotation within the Forties. Potentially a reference to “glory” as a kind of maximum sexual pleasure. 

“A buddy of mine told me the club he goes to has a glory hole in the men’s room… I asked him if he’d ever used it, but he wouldn’t tell me. It got me kind of curious, though…”


Kink / Move

Pronunciation: GOAL-den SHAH-wurr

Slang time period for urinating on somebody in a sexual context. Typically one thing practiced by folks into “urolagnia,” the technical time period for “piss play” or “water sports.” Golden showers are thought of fairly kinky by many individuals, however they’re undoubtedly extra mainstream than enjoying with feces (“scat play”). 

Etymology: Golden bathe actually describes urine flowing down over somebody, since pee is usually considerably yellowish — nonetheless usually in golden bathe porn, it’s a lot nearer to clear, since performers drink loads of water so as to have the ability to urinate extra, which implies they’re extra hydrated, which dilutes the colour of the pee. 

“I never really knew she was freaky like that until one day I asked her if she wanted to shower with me and she said, ‘Sure… but only if it’s a golden shower.’”


Sex / Term

Pronunciation: mile HIE klub

Term for the individuals who have had intercourse whereas on an airplane in mid-air. It has change into more durable to hitch post-9/11 resulting from elevated airline regulation and safety measures. 

Etymology: Appears to this point again to the Seventies. Planes usually fly nearer to six or 7 miles above floor at cruising altitude, however “Mile high club” has a pleasant ring to it. 

“Samantha and I are flying to Rome next week. I’ve always wanted to get into the Mile high club, but honestly with the way air travel is these days… maybe I’ll settle for just a casual makeout in our seats.”


Sex / Persona

Pronunciation: MILF

A MILF is usually a cougar — however particularly one who has kids. Accompanied by the much less well-liked variants DILF, and GMILF/GPILF. Often used a reputation for the porn style that includes older actresses having intercourse with youthful males or girls. MILFs are typically cougars. 

Etymology: MILF is an acronym for “Mother I’d Like to F*ck.”

“Man, did you see Doug’s mom? She is such a MILF!”


Porn / Term

Pronunciation: MUH-nee SHOT

Porn time period for footage of a male actor ejaculating, usually on his associate’s physique or face, usually on the climax of the porn movie. Every cash shot is a cumshot, however not each cumshot is a cash shot, since porn movies usually characteristic a number of cumshots. Over time, the time period has come to imply the climactic or pivotal shot in different media, too. 

Etymology: So named due to the notion that viewers crave seeing the second of male orgasm, and the film wouldn’t be price something with out it. 

“Last night my mom walked in on me watching porn… I panicked and hit pause but it was right at the money shot. Needless to say, things were awkward at breakfast this morning.”


Sex / Term

Pronunciation: NET-flix and CHILL

Dating euphemism primarily based across the well-liked streaming service for an evening the place you invite somebody over to your home ostensibly to “watch Netflix and chill” however truly, the first motivation is to have intercourse collectively. However, after the time period turned mainstream, a few of its sexual nature appeared to fade, as folks started to jokingly use it to easily imply watching one thing on Netflix with out truly doing something, whether or not alone or with a associate. 

Etymology: The phrase gained reputation on Twitter, probably initially being utilized by African-American customers, in 2014.

“So did issues ever work out with that lady you have been crushing on?“ “Nah. I requested her over to Netflix and chill, however she by no means responded. Maybe she solely goes out with guys who need to take her on actual dates.“


aka “nooky”

Sex / Term

Pronunciation: NUK-ee

Largely outdated slang time period for intercourse. Got a giant increase within the public consciousness due to Limp Bizkit’s 1999 tune “Nookie.” 

Etymology: At least as previous because the early Twentieth century — probably from a Dutch phrase for intercourse. 

“He said he spends like half the day jerking off every day and I said, ‘Wow, you think about nookie that much?’”


Porn / Persona

Pronunciation: POG

This one is a little bit of a problematic one, in no small half as a result of it type of implies that girls’s butts are in another way formed relying on their race — and never, say, different elements like age, life-style and genetics.

Etymology: Pawg is a slang time period that will have originated in porn — it’s merely the acronym for the phrase “phat-ass white girl.”

“I’ve been watching a lot of pawg porn laterly — I love a girl with a thick behind.”


Porn / Term

Pronunciation: pirl NEK-liss

When a person ejaculates on a lady’s neck and higher chest — usually after she has given him a blowjob whereas kneeling. 

Etymology: Strands or ropes of white-ish semen round a lady’s neck would possibly evoke a pearl necklace, which is made up of equally white-ish valuable beads. 

“Janet’s been begging me to get her a pearl necklace for years… Well, last night I finally gave her one! Just not the kind you buy in a store.”


Queer / Move

Pronunciation: PEG-ing

Pegging is a intercourse act the place a person’s anus is penetrated, usually by a dildo or different anus-focused intercourse toy, usually by an individual and not using a penis, typically manually and typically utilizing a strap-on.

Etymology: The time period dates again to 2001, when well-known intercourse and courting recommendation author Dan Savage held a contest to coin a time period for the act. A peg is usually a brief cylindrical object that stands proud from a wall or different flat floor, so in that sense, it’s much like a strap-on dildo.  

“I attached with a woman final evening who wished to know if she might peg me.“ “So did you say sure?“ “No… I used to be too shocked. But it did make me type of curious.“


Kink / Term

Pronunciation: PLAY

Slang for BDSM or different queer/kink-oriented intercourse — together with subcategories equivalent to “bloodplay,” “edgeplay,” “ageplay,” and many others.. See additionally “play party,” a intercourse occasion that’s targeted on kink or BDSM moderately than normative intercourse acts.

Etymology: Potentially a reference to the truth that these acts, whereas probably stunning or critical, are completed for pleasure, and thus, in some sense, playful. 

“A friend of mine invited me to one of his kinky play parties, but after I asked him what they’d be getting up to, I wasn’t sure I’d feel comfortable in that environment.”


Kink / Term

Pronunciation: prints AL-birt

A piercing the place a steel bolt goes by way of the shaft of a penis, usually popping out the urethral opening on one finish and beneath the pinnacle on the opposite finish. 

Etymology: The time period dates again to an city legend circulated within the Seventies that Prince Albert, a consort of Queen Victoria, had such a piercing. 

“The last guy I matched with on Tinder wanted to know if I’d ever sucked a pierced dick.” “Wow! So you think he had a Prince Albert?”


Sex / Move

Pronunciation: KWEEF

A fart-like noise that happens when air escapes a lady’s vagina throughout sexual activity. 

Etymology: Origin unknown. Possibly an onomatopoeia. 

“So there we were, having the best sex of our lives, when all of a sudden she queefed! After that, we were laughing too hard to keep going.”


Sex / Term

Pronunciation: KWIK-ee

Term for a short intercourse act, normally only a few minutes in size, actually because it’s completed in public or, as an illustration, when one or each individuals must be elsewhere — at work, or at an occasion, and many others. A quickie that takes place throughout a number of individuals’ lunch break is named a “nooner,” since it might happen round 12 midday. 

Etymology: The time period is a noun derived from the adjective “quick,” or quick. 

“My new job is actually pretty close to her apartment, so yesterday on my lunch break I snuck over and we had a little quickie together.”


Sex / Term

Pronunciation: RED wings

Blood stains on an individual’s face when performing oral intercourse on somebody who’s menstruating. Something which you can “earn,” like a badge, since theoretically it requires braveness to lick somebody’s clitoris whereas there could be blood of their vagina. However, relying on the menstruator’s circulation, the place they’re of their cycle and whether or not they’re utilizing a tampon or a cup, there won’t be any blood popping out regardless.  

Etymology: A supposed description of the visible of crimson blood smears on both facet of somebody’s mouth like literal crimson wings drawn on their face. 

“I earned my red wings last night while going down on Kimmy… She was a little freaked out by it but it didn’t bother me at all.”


Kink / Term

Pronunciation: SAYF-werd

A phrase utilized by folks participating in BDSM intercourse to point that the dominant associate ought to cease what they’re doing instantly. Replaces the phrase “No” or “Don’t” or “Stop” when folks need to interact in intercourse the place a dominant associate ignores a submissive associate’s pleas. A protected phrase could be an unusual or non-sexual time period that’s unlikely to return up in every other context, so there’s no uncertainty about what is supposed when it’s used. 

Etymology: Simply the phrases “safe” and “word” collectively, to suggest that it’s a phrase whose use will maintain you protected in the event you’re not feeling comfy. 

“After I told him I wanted to experiment with edgier stuff, we came up with a safeword together… ‘Pineapple.’”


Queer / Move

Pronunciation: SIH-zur-ing

A intercourse transfer frequent in lesbian porn (however debatably well-liked in precise lesbian intercourse) the place two girls rub their crotches collectively.

Etymology: The time period is a reference to the truth that when two girls’s legs are unfold they usually’re touching crotches, it’s a bit like two pairs of scissors opened to intersect with one another.

“I love watching porn of women scissoring, but a friend of mine told me real lesbians don’t even do that, so now I don’t know what to think.”


aka “dick cheese”

Sex / Term

Pronunciation: SMEG-muh

A white-ish, cheese-like substance that may type beneath a person’s foreskin if he doesn’t clear it recurrently. Typically composed of a combination of sweat, pores and skin cells and semen and carrying a strongly disagreeable style. 

Etymology: “Smegma” is the Greek phrase for “soap” — probably used as such as a result of it considerably resembles a powdered detergent. 

“Guys really need to wash their junk! Last time I went down on a date, I got a mouth full of smegma! Yuck!”


Porn / Move

Pronunciation: SNOH-baw-ling

The act of passing semen backwards and forwards by kissing, typically between the individual performing fellation and the receiver, and typically between the individual performing the fellatio and one other participant. 

Etymology: Typically, rolling a snowball down a snow-covered hill will consequence within the ball accumulating snow because it rolls, thus “snowballing” in a non-sexual context means to build up or develop in dimension. Apart from the comparability of semen to a different white substance (on this case snow but in addition to whipped cream and pearls in different slang), if the semen is being handed backwards and forwards throughout snowballing, it might combine with saliva, step by step showing to extend in quantity. 

“My fantasy is to have two women suck me off, and then when I come, they snowball it back and forth between them.”


Sex / Move

Pronunciation: STELL-thing

Term for when a man having penetrative intercourse whereas utilizing a condom quietly slips the condom off with out his associate noticing, then continues to have intercourse unprotectedly. Since intercourse and not using a condom can really feel extra intense, stealthing would possibly look like a simple option to get round a associate wanting you to put on a condom — however it might then result in STI transmission or undesirable pregnancies. It’s additionally a deep violation of belief and consent, main some to check it to rape. 

Etymology: Originally coined to explain not disclosing you may have an STI (i.e. being secretive, or ‘stealthy’) it now primarily describes agreeing to make use of a condom and them eradicating it, moderately than pretending you don’t have to put on one. 

“Then all of a sudden midway through sex, he pulled out and afterwards it felt different. And I was freaking out because I was worried he was stealthing me.”


Sex / Move

Pronunciation: TEE-bag-ing

Plopping your testicles on one thing — usually a sleeping or in any other case unsuspecting individual and probably their face/head — or absolutely into somebody’s mouth. Typically the province of extraordinarily immature males, frat boys and video players. 

Etymology: The time period is a reference to the concept that a pair of testicles descending into an open mouth is much like a teabag being dropped right into a mug of scorching water with a view to make tea. 

“Ugh, I hate my little brother. Yesterday I took a nap on the couch and when I woke up, he was teabagging me! I’m gonna ruin his life.” 


Sex / Term

Pronunciation: THURD bayce

In America, folks usually affiliate intercourse with baseball lingo. Commonly, first base is kissing/making out, second base includes touching breasts or genitals along with your arms, third base is oral intercourse, and house is penetrative intercourse. 

Etymology: The sexual bases system probably developed within the early Twentieth century so that folks might discuss intercourse acts with out utilizing the extra taboo precise sexual terminology. 

“We’d never gone past kissing before, but last night we got to second base together for the first time — I can’t stop thinking about it.”


Queer / Persona

Pronunciation: TAWP

A homosexual man who enjoys penetrating and being “on top,” or controlling the motion, also referred to as a “pitcher.” As against a “bottom,” or “catcher,” who is usually the one being penetrated. Those who’re comfy doing each are often called “switch,” or “vers,” brief for “versatile.” A “power bottom” is somebody who enjoys being penetrated however prefers to be extra controlling/dominant moderately than passive throughout intercourse; a “party bottom” is a homosexual man who engages in intercourse at events the place he get penetrated by a number of companions, with a lot of them ejaculating in his anus. 

Etymology: A reference to the truth that the highest is “above” the underside — in some instances actually however in any other case, as a result of the highest is in management, a minimum of semantically. 

“I’m so sick of Grindr.” “Why? Because it’s all bottoms and no tops?”


Queer / Persona

Pronunciation: TRAYD

Gay slang time period for a straight-coded man with a rough-and-tumble attraction who participates in intercourse acts with homosexual males, probably gaining monetary favors in return.

Etymology: Potentially a reference to the notion of straight or straight-seeming males buying and selling sexual favors for cash. 

“What about Ken… do you think he might…” “What? Do I think he’s trade? No way. He’s super devoted to his girlfriend.”


Porn / Genre

Pronunciation: TRA-nee

Offensive and outmoded time period for a transgender individual — usually male to feminine, or M2F — that’s nonetheless used to explain porn that includes trans folks. See additionally: shemale. 

Etymology: Short for “transgender,” “transsexual,” or “transvestite.”

“I actually love watching trans people porn, but I hate having to type ‘tranny’ into the search bar to find it… it’s such a gross word.” 


Sex / Term

Pronunciation: TRUH-full BUD-der

Slang time period for an accumulation of fecal matter across the entrance to the vagina after a heterosexual couple switches from anal to vaginal penetration. Relatedly, the Dan Savage-coined time period “santorum,” a combination of fecal matter and lube that accumulates across the opening of the anus throughout anal intercourse between males. 

Etymology: Actual truffle butter — that’s, butter combined with truffles — predates the sexual which means, which seems to have cropped up within the 2010s, and was popularized partially by the 2015 Nicki Minaj tune “Truffle Butter.” 

“God, she looks so good in those jeans… I’d even eat up her truffle butter just for a chance to touch that booty.”


Queer / Persona

Pronunciation: TWINK

Gay slang for a thin, enticing boyish male, usually with little to no physique hair and total considerably effeminate. Essentially, the other of a bear. 

Etymology: The precise historical past of the phrase seems to be in dispute, however probably dates to the mid-Twentieth century, both British or American in origin. 

“Roger keeps texting me dick pics… He’s so thirsty.” “Well, you know how much he loves twinks — that’s you to a T.”


Sex / Persona

Pronunciation: YOU-nuh-korn

Slang time period for a bisexual, pansexual or in any other case sexually versatile lady who’s up for becoming a member of heterosexual {couples} for an FFM threesome. 

Etymology: So-named as a result of, just like the legendary creatures often called unicorns, they’re extraordinarily uncommon and magical — a minimum of in idea. 

“Whenever I match with another girl on Tinder these days, it turns out to be a girl in a relationship with a guy looking for a third.” “So you don’t want to be some lucky couple’s unicorn?”


Porn / Genre

Pronunciation: UPS-kirt

Upskirt movies heart on footage of unsuspecting girls’s crotches whereas they stroll round in public. Really creepy, and likewise not very authorized. 

Etymology: The identify comes from the truth that the digital camera angle is actually pointing up their skirts to see their underwear.

“I find upskirt porn really upsetting. It turns me on, but knowing that these women didn’t consent to being filmed… I just can’t watch it anymore.”

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